Will I ever have love/sex again?

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Will I ever have love/sex again?

Post by Perv69 » Wed Mar 31, 2021 5:27 pm

Obviously long story cut short, my Hungarian girlfriend of 8 years left me and my Spanish farm 6 months ago. I was amicable but I didn't want her to go and miss (ed) her terribly. Before that, I was married for a long time so yes, I like long-term committed relationships.
The pandemic has made socialising very hard, and it was quiet before! I just never meet anyone really. Brits here are mainly older and don't seem to want much to do with anyone outside of a small clique. The locals are very stuck in their ways and don't mix.
I've tried dating sites, lots of them and they are Awful !!
The big ones seem to have crap algorithms and the small ones you never match anyone. After all, who wants to move to Spain or if they are in Spain, out to the rural wastelands? No-one it seems. I somehow managed to break a rule on Tinder and got banned, for what I have no idea but it felt like a scan as I only just paid. As they are part of a large group, seems I couldn't even create any more accounts on other sites. The few contacts I had, didn't read my bio and were mainly nuts. I have joined a 'Farmers' site but it's all UK based.
Clearly, I could have 'sex' again. I could cruise the streets near the coast and get sex. I want a relationship, even love, but my hopes are quite low, as is my spirit. I love what I have here, I won't go into details but it's everything you could want and I'm virtually self-sufficient.
Sigh!
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Re: Will I ever have love/sex again?

Post by Iamsomoney » Wed Mar 31, 2021 10:28 pm

Sorry to hear that Perv. You never know, something might happen when you least expect it. Try to keep your spirits up
You're so money and you don't even know it!!

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Re: Will I ever have love/sex again?

Post by Naughty Man » Fri Apr 02, 2021 12:29 am

I'm going through a split with my wife, its an awful thing to go through. We are trying.to be amicable but it's very hard to do.

Life goes on and I think I'll be using knocking shops for a bit to make sure I'm not blindsided into another relationship I don't want. I'm not drinking atm as I try to avoid being.out of it in.anyway when things get tough. Good luck to yourself life is ever evolving and we either move with it or we.become stuck.

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