Breeding bull legal position

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Kev9
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Re: Breeding bull legal position

Post by Kev9 » Sun Jul 19, 2020 9:47 am

These assurances have really thrown me! Thanks to the advice I've been given on here I was planning on messaging them to tell them no but because I started a conversation about it their absolute "no further contact, NOT NEGOTIABLE", is genuinely leaving me torn.

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Re: Breeding bull legal position

Post by Hovis » Sun Jul 19, 2020 4:33 pm

The further Non-negotiable no contact 100% guarantee is not in their gift. In 16 years time the child will have the right to know.
How are they going to respond to that?
Are you prepared to have questions asked of you?
How might that affect your future family?
What if their relationship fails, can one or other of them seek childcare from you?
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Re: Breeding bull legal position

Post by Cobalt » Sun Jul 19, 2020 5:12 pm

Yeah, this has disaster written all over it.
Plus just because they think the husband in this situation is a bit on the feeble side doesn’t mean his child would be because that’s not how genetics work. If there are generations of weaklings in his family then fine.
But what if they get buyer’s remorse? They regret their decision after it’s too late and you find a baby on your doorstep?
There are so many things that could go wrong.
While it’s very flattering for the ego to be asked, you’re putting yourself at considerable risk.

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Re: Breeding bull legal position

Post by Kev9 » Sun Jul 19, 2020 7:18 pm

Yes, the more I think properly about everything that people here have said the more my mind is screaming NO!

Thank you all.

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Re: Breeding bull legal position

Post by Atmospherical » Sun Jul 19, 2020 7:41 pm

Run in the opposite direction and thank who ever you regard as holy, because that could have a right ‘mare!
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Re: Breeding bull legal position

Post by Maurice-Mynah » Tue Jul 21, 2020 8:37 am

" I have been chatting with the couple about exactly this and they are very definite in the assurances this would be a once only occurrence and I would never hear from them again, 100%."

I am reminded of the comment Mandy Rice-Davis made in court. "Well they would wouldn't they"

Your legal position is clear. You are the biological father, the child could end up as your responsibility.
Somehow I think you already know this and perhaps hope that a loophole will be found. It won't be.

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Re: Breeding bull legal position

Post by Kev9 » Tue Jul 21, 2020 7:43 pm

Maurice-Mynah wrote:
Tue Jul 21, 2020 8:37 am
Your legal position is clear. You are the biological father, the child could end up as your responsibility.
Somehow I think you already know this and perhaps hope that a loophole will be found. It won't be.
Yes, thank you. I'll be keeping well clear!

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Re: Breeding bull legal position

Post by WriterLust94 » Tue Jul 21, 2020 7:54 pm

Good to hear Kev!
Be kind, have fun, and no regrets ;)

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