Tried this many times

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Re: Tried this many times

Post by Nobby » Wed Nov 27, 2019 7:40 pm

I've been to Chameleons Club once albeit on my own....I didn't get involved in any of the action there as being a 'first timer' I wasn't too sure how to go about things despite all the research I did prior to my visit...but I have to say I really enjoyed my time there.
I only ever went dogging once as well....a pal and I went to a car park on Cannock Chase one evening a couple of years ago.....got there about 9:30 and there quite a few cars already there....including 2 marked police vehicles and a police van .....I don't care what Mazda say.....you can do 0 to 60 in 1.6 seconds in a Mk 2 MX5 !!!!
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Re: Tried this many times

Post by yurigagarin » Wed Nov 27, 2019 8:40 pm

There is a dogging site not too far away from where I live, and I have been there a couple of times in the summer on my own.
But I will be quite honest there was no one else about, I wasn't unsure what to expect, and quite frankly I felt scared, so I didn't
stay too long on either occasion.
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Re: Tried this many times

Post by Ben Truelove » Thu Nov 28, 2019 1:34 am

I've been lucky to have had some amazing sex sessions in my car over the years but never in what I believed to be popular dogging sites.
We always succeeded in finding a quiet secluded area to get down and dirty in, including a multi-storey car park in daylight, and have so far managed to enjoy our naughtiness without interruption.
The dogging scene worries me on so many levels and I have no desire to visit any such areas.
An out of the way rugby club car park at 2am is a different story altogether though!

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Re: Tried this many times

Post by yurigagarin » Thu Nov 28, 2019 10:05 am

Ben Truelove wrote:
Thu Nov 28, 2019 1:34 am
I've been lucky to have had some amazing sex sessions in my car over the years but never in what I believed to be popular dogging sites.
We always succeeded in finding a quiet secluded area to get down and dirty in, including a multi-storey car park in daylight, and have so far managed to enjoy our naughtiness without interruption.
The dogging scene worries me on so many levels and I have no desire to visit any such areas.
An out of the way rugby club car park at 2am is a different story altogether though!

Thanks for your thoughts on this Ben.
I suppose my sexual curiosity over ruled my better judgement at the time , but in hindsight I should have known better.
For a guy on his own in a strange place - there are so many things that can go wrong I think.
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Re: Tried this many times

Post by Diamond » Fri Nov 29, 2019 5:54 am

My experience of dogging is that everyone is as in stain as everyone else. But where I used to go was in no sense out of the way

But always put safety first. If you don't think it's a good idea, don't do it
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Re: Tried this many times

Post by PENTUP » Mon Dec 16, 2019 6:48 am

Re tracking down quiet, safe dogging sites: a couple of years back there was a notorious site on a country park car park in sleepy old Sussex. Now you wouldn't imagine that that county would be overloaded with dogging enthusiasts, would you? Essex yes, but not Sussex! It even had its own website (sadly, long gone) on which it set out the basic 'house rules'. The charming part was that its opening page showed a very well-endowed middle-aged blonde lady smiling and clasping a thin cardigan across her bosom, with the headline 'WELCOME' above. It was pretty obvious from the picture that she had nothing on under her cardi and that she was very likely to flash her titties at you when you arrived!

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Re: Tried this many times

Post by TonyDunn » Mon Feb 03, 2020 9:07 am

I am an occasional dogger I guess. By that I mean that when I am in an area I will visit a car park and see if anything is happening. I used to go to the midlands and the west country but these days I am mainly in and around London. It is much quieter these days and most car parks are closed, couples have quit the dogging scene and many doggers think they just going to get a quick fuck. There are still good places, open that get visits from couples. One I go to (6 or so times a year these days) is almost a social scene. It has the same doggers nightly and the same couples who may or may not play. The thrill is checking somewhere and striking lucky. But we are talking 1 in 20 visits. I really was so much better 5 to 10 years ago and if I go back 20 years it was rife.
Add to that the police visits, yes they do stop you and ask what you are doing. And the weirdos of which there are many. Boy racers who are out for a smoke and hate dogging. People who want to beat up doggers, transexuals, and gay men. Gay men who pretend to be straight but want to touch you up and suck you off. Transexuals who trick you. Doggers themselves. Some are OK. Some have the no social etiquette. Some with obvious physical and mental health issues. Some who are bullies and some so nervous they cannot speak.
And then there are the couples. They are there for a reason. All of the above applies but you can add hygiene and STD
But then very occasionally you find a couple where she is hot and they are game for anything. Heaven

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Re: Tried this many times

Post by Princess » Mon Feb 03, 2020 9:15 am

Playing with fire can get you burnt other times you just get hot. 😊

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Re: Tried this many times

Post by yurigagarin » Mon Feb 03, 2020 11:37 am

TonyDunn wrote:
Mon Feb 03, 2020 9:07 am
I am an occasional dogger I guess...

As I have said before I have visited a local site a couple of times in the summer on my own.
On both visits there was no one else about, I wasn't unsure what to expect, and quite frankly I felt scared, so I didn't
stay too long on either occasion.
So TonyDunn's post has been very enlightening and made up my mind that dogging on your own is probably not a good idea
But that's just my thoughts !
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Re: Tried this many times

Post by PENTUP » Mon Feb 03, 2020 5:53 pm

TonyDunn is also spot on about Plod's interest. In Gloucestershire there is a notorious dogging area in some woods at a place called Birdlip Hill. From time to time in the summer months (doubtless egged on by prurient local householders) Old Bill turns up and takes everybody's name and address, regardless of whether they are spectating or 'performing'.

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