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malvyn
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A question

Post by malvyn » Fri Jul 12, 2019 8:42 am

I read an article the other day that said that giving a blow job was a form of Submission so .
Can you remember your first blow job and under what circumstances?
Did you swallow ? :suckfuck: :suckfuck:
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Re: A question

Post by Podgybelly » Fri Jul 12, 2019 10:07 am

Never thought it was submission, just wanted to suck a cock. Never went to completion. Want to try again.

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Re: A question

Post by Diamond » Fri Jul 12, 2019 12:31 pm

It's only submissive if that the intention. I've had a couple of situations where I was the dom but still sucked, including the first time

I dont think whomever wrote the article actually knew what they were talking about
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Re: A question

Post by malvyn » Fri Jul 12, 2019 3:39 pm

Well the person went on to say that the giver gets no pleasure fome the act.
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Re: A question

Post by Ben Truelove » Fri Jul 12, 2019 4:17 pm

I can't say that I ever considered a blowjob to be a form of submission with any of my partners. I just see it as a way of receiving such intense pleasure, and then reciprocating by going down on her. For me, mutual oral sex is one of the most erotic and satisfying activities.
But consider this. As a fan of 'The Sopranos' (mafia-based drama), I remember several episodes when blowjobs were shown and/or discussed and it seems that in such circles, it is seen as a sub-dom thing; the man's pleasure is the only important thing.
Similarly as described in the programme, a man going down on a woman is perceived as a weakness, and not something a powerful, dominant maie should be doing.
Whether this is truth or fiction, I just love giving, receiving and watching oral sex.
They couldn't see what should've been so obvious.

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Re: A question

Post by Hovis » Fri Jul 12, 2019 4:28 pm

I don't see oral sex from either male or female partner as an act of submission. I know I enjoy being the giver.
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Re: A question

Post by yurigagarin » Fri Jul 12, 2019 4:29 pm

Hovis wrote:
Fri Jul 12, 2019 4:28 pm
I don't see oral sex from either male or female partner as an act of submission. I know I enjoy being the giver.
Me too my friend - it's a truly pleasurable pastime - for both parties !
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Re: A question

Post by Diamond » Fri Jul 12, 2019 6:47 pm

malvyn wrote:
Fri Jul 12, 2019 3:39 pm
Well the person went on to say that the giver gets no pleasure fome the act.
Two points here. Firstly just because you derive no pleasure from an activity that gives your partner pleasure doesnt in any way make it submission. Submission is a state of mind, not the performance of certain acts

Secondly I derive great pleasure from giving oral to both men and women. I certainly get more pleasure from giving a blow job than receiving one and cunnilinus is my absolute favourite

He was just filling column inches with some uninformed opinions
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Re: A question

Post by MajorJump » Sun Sep 01, 2019 9:02 pm

If so I was definitely the submissive party!!

My wife is a blowjob fiend lol, she can't get enough of it and she is definitely in control.. quite often she'll instigate it, whether driving, outdoors or watching a film or something.

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